Saturday, July 23, 2011

What do children do in your country?

Photo: Martin enthralling the boys

Photo: The MIMDES program is located in the back of a busy market

Photo: The entrance into the program

Photo: Singing a song in the hopes of getting an extra slice of cake

Photo: The children introducing themselves and telling us about their work

Photo: Our introductions and Q&A session

Photo: The sign that introduces the program at the front door

"Do children in your country work?"

We were invited to a street youth program this morning run by the Peruvian Ministry for Woman and Social Rights (MIMDES). The program is a prevention and education project for children who spend everyday with their parents working in the markets and on the streets of Arequipa. There are currently three geographic areas of operation - the three principle street markets in the city - with Saturday and Wednesday activities.

Staff (a psychologist by the name of Marcos and Martin and Mariam - both Social Workers) from MIMDES provide an environment and an opportunity "for children to be children." As Marcos told us, many of the children who spend their days working in the markets or on the streets side-by-side with their parents "lose their childhood." One of the programmatic goals of the program is to allow children the opportunity to play, laugh and engage in child-centric activities.

Today, during our visit, there was a cake, cookies and a small celebration; for what, we don't know, but it was fantastic to be there. We were treated as special guests and invited to play with the some 20 children gathered at the "party." To start our time together, Marcos invited the children to ask us questions or tell us a little about themselves. The children took full advantage of their opportunity and asked such marvelous questions as, "Why are you bald? Why are your eyes blue? What language do people speak where you are from?"

One-by-one they went around and told us their names and what they did for work: Kevin sells fish with his mother, Wilson sell clothing, Mary Luz sells chocolates, Jessica helps her mother to deliver water, Stephanie is a meat cutter. Children, some as young as 5-years old, work side-by-side with their parents to eke out a small wage. Many, not all, attend a small school that is open in the market area. Most, dream of something so much more.

At one point in our visit, a little girl asked Martin, "What do children do in your country?" He was uncertain how to respond. He told her that they went to school and that they played. She asked him if children in [our] country worked like she did. Martin later told me that he was uncertain how to respond to her question - for he did not want to offend her. He did not know how to tell her that children in the U.S. spend their days playing and watching television. He did know how to tell her that children are allowed to be . . . children.

As we were getting ready to leave, the children came up to say goodbye. One of the boys, having been fascinated with the pictures I had on my iPhone of Lee and Alex (my wife and daughter), said "please give my best to your family." Wow, here is a child who spends day after day working in an impoverished market for little to no pay to help support his family - and he sends his best for my family. I was floored.

We are not certain what next steps will unfold with our new partners at MIMDES - but we are certainly looking forward to helping to build bridges for their programs and the wonderful work they are doing for children living in such desperate circumstances.

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